Hello there, I know this thread is a bit old but I thought I'd post here because it seems to be the first thing that pops up when I search "Stardew Valley Nonbinary" and my mod is heavily inspired by the one in this thread. I created a mod that allows you to play without being gendered (except in the intro cutscene). So it's here for future reference for anyone who visits this thread and you can get my mod here: http://www.nexusmods.com/stardewvalley/mods/722/?