All right, so I'm not sure if it's because of a non-SMAPI mod or not, but... When I got the group breakup events with both the guys and the girls, rather than breaking up with me, they decided they were going to give me the cold shoulder instead, but not break up with me. Is this an undocumented change in one of the more recent beta updates, or is this mod-caused? The only non-SMAPI mods I have are the Easier Fishing 2.0 and Anthro Characters Continued mods.
That changed in v1.3.15: https://community.playstarbound.com...y-multiplayer-beta-known-issues-fixes.142850/
Ooooh, okay! I don't know how I missed that. Thanks! That said, I'm really glad it was vanilla and not mod-caused...though part of me wishes the reduced harshness came from apologizing right away rather than from trying to explain myself.