Multiplayer via IP

Hello everyone, im not sure if this place is dead or not, but let's go, it's been a week that I've been trying a lot of things, and nothing works, so I was wondering if someone here had an idea, my friend and I wanted to play Starbound, but it's impossible to play it by connecting via steam, too much lag, so I mainly followed this tutorial (https://community.playstarbound.com...er-setup-for-multiplayer-without-steam.119089 /) to be able to join via IP without going through steam, I did everything as it should be, I just took the starbound_server.exe from the win64 folder, and not from the win 32), I can join the server, but my friend can't join, she has an error message (Join failed! error connecting to: with the IP of the hamachi server; networkexception, cannot connect to: Ip of hamachi server)
we both checked "join by IP" in the menu, but nothing
here you go, if you have an idea, I thank you in advance!

(Edit: we are using the last version of the game)

 

if you're still having problems with this, this isn't a starbound issue. it's a connection issue between you and the other person. the peer2peer connection wasn't established correctly or some other issue is preventing you from establishing a connection.

run diagnostics in Hamachi by right clicking your friend and trying to ping them, you should see a response. you may have to modify your firewall settings or one/both of you may need to reinstall and restart.